So I need advice.

My girlfriend kinda cheated on me with one of my best friends on my birthday.

Yeah I know how utterly pathetically hilarious that is for you guys, but if you could hold the insults for today and just write them down and save them for tommorow I would appreciate it. I found out today so a little mercy please.

My friend is the one who told me. Pretty sure I'm going to break his head in two. And I talked to my girlfriend about it. She said it was the first time, that she was sorry, and it wouldn't happen again. sigh

I honestly would love some advice guys. But for the record I'm not a pathetic douche who doesn't have friends to talk to. I already told them. sigh. And uhh yeah be nice to me. I feel sad and angry, like never before.

He had the balls to tell you, break HER head not HIS.

http://www.againstmeforum.com/general-chat-f6/the-relationship-thread-t3095.htm

And what Odell said. AT LEAST that guy was honest.

Oh, and about what she said..


Your 17, find a new bitch and be done.

this is just me but..
dump the broad.
that is heartless to do it with your best friend AND on your birthday.
go find someone better.

Odell the thought went through my mind. Still is. But I told my friends that if they ever went around my back I would fuck them up. I have a contract to uphold. Maybe I break both their heads. But I digress cuz I don't know what to do. Thanks for the advice though keep it coming.

P.S. not my best friend. Just a good friend, and its sorta ironic. My best friend constantly jokes about stealing my girlfriend. Plus he's the kinda guy who constantly has more twat then he knows to do with it. Seriously he walks into a room and chicks check him out its sorta weird. And then my douchy pathetic friend makes out with my girlfriend.

Dont fight em'

That just puts you at their level.

Just say fine, fuck you, you can have her, and find some new hoes.

REALLY.

Odell I here you man. But fuck that. I will break his skull in two.

Straight up violence never solves anything, it the natural response and is expected. Just shun the shit out of both of them, they're obviously a less than positive force in your life. And that's my 'Dear Abby' moment of the day.

wow. that sounds familiar. sucks huh?

yeah man it does. don't mean to pry what happened with you?

My last girlfriend used to suck cock for drug money behind my back. I know how being cheated on feels. It sucks but putting yourself through the suffering of being angry all the time won't help and neither will beating some one up over it.

well she did say it wouldn't happen again

i dont know about fighting just ignore him he's not your pal anymore thats for sure. and as for her it sucks but you are 17 this wont be the last time you get shit on.

it was getting late at my 20th birthday party we were all drunk and shit. we were playing beer pong and she went outside to find her friend dannielle. she's not coming back forever, i go to my tuck and her car and look inside to make sure she's all right. i realized this one dudes car was still there, who said he left a while ago. so i looked in it and i watched her putting her pants back on.

idk what they fuck i would do. thats crazy. did you smash his window? i might've done that

no I did put gum under his car door handle. sorta a little I'll fuck with u later message. And knate that sucks man.

I don't know what I'm gonna do.

Cry.

Not the crying type. More the fighting type.

sugar in her gas tank.
nail sticking out of a piece of wood wedged behind her rear tire.

you can be mad at the guy for kissing your girlfriend, sure, because she's yours.
but it honestly is not the guy you should be focusing your anger on.

once a cheater, always a cheater-- its been proven to me multiple times and it fucking blows yeah man, i feel ya.
but she's really gotta go. someone's gotta teach her that that shit is UNFUCKINGACCEPTABLE.

and what some other people said-- yeah it hurts, but were teenagers man, gotta just roll with the punches, nothing you can do to change the past. time heals all wounds and all that confucius bullshit.

SolemnPsycho wrote:

no I did put gum under his car door handle. sorta a little I'll fuck with u later message. And knate that sucks man.

I don't know what I'm gonna do.

sorry i was talking to knate. but thats good with the gum

An eye for an eye, leaves the whole world blind.

goldfisch880 wrote:

you can be mad at the guy for kissing your girlfriend, sure, because she's yours.
but it honestly is not the guy you should be focusing your anger on.

what the fuck is that? since when does anyone belong to anyone in any sense?


every situation is different. gotta work it out on its own merits. fuck all this testosterone fueled bullshit about fighting. just say "see ya" and move on with your life. you'll get better in time, stay strong and don't let your anger control you.

pintsogin wrote:

idk what they fuck i would do. thats crazy. did you smash his window? i might've done that

i didn't do anything. it just told me she was a ho. so i went back inside, and i ended up meeting for the first time what would become my girlfriend a couple months later

Everyone is cheated on once, you are just the one of the few along with me who found out about it.